When I was a child I was always compared with my classmates by my parents , and when I became young I start comparing myself with my colleague or my friends …
Is this process will go on? The answer is NO………
Everyone in this world has some unique qualities. One should try to find what are in him/her. It is the nature of mind that we always try to find out /learn what we can’t do and start practices those things.
If anybody doesn’t know Dance but he is better writer than others. What should he do?
He will try to learn dance because his colleague can do better dance. He will not work hard on writing.
He should learn Dance or He should work hard on writing. I think he should work hard on writing. But when he starts working on writing his parents start comparing him with the boy who dances better. They will not recognize that their son is better in writing than that Boy.
So instead of comparing with others we should work on the strength we have and try make it as strong as nobody can make you a loser ……
What will you say? Should We try to be good in every field?
OR
Should we work on the strength we have?
2 comments:
Hi Pradeep,
This is a good topic of discussion, As u hv wrote, that is true bt we should not stop practicing other thing which i don't know. In my words, One should work hard on one's strength nd also should practice the things around oneself. I'm not aying that U should be perfect in others qualities, bt u should know others too.
Hi,
I think you are right,but in certain circumtances it becomes helpful.
I mean if comparison comes in a same field or same profession then it becomes helpful.When parents do comparison among their sibling or school mates/college mates,then it definately work for you.
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